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Wednesday, 19 March 2008

  • DAY OF HELL Followed by a Day of Delight

    Yesterday was one of those days where I would ask myself "Why did I get into this profession?".  I have been battling a cold for these past 2 days, and sure enough I was pretty sick yesterday.  My nose was runny, I was congested and my throat hurts.  I was actually calling out sick until one of my aid texted me to tell me that she's is sick and would not be coming in.  I knew that she was pretty sick the day before and so I had to suck it up and just go to work because by then, it's too late for the District to get a sub for me.

    8:30-9:00:  Arrival.  The buses were late and kids were running around and very stimmy!

    9:00-9:30:  Work Time.  I was working with one of my student and one of the Speech Therapist decided that she's going to come in and pull the students I'm working with for Speech.  Like what's going one?  Are we not sticking to our schedule?  Sure Let's throw everyone else's schedule off!  Since  my throat was THROBBING, I was too tired and sore to argue with her...

    9:30-10:00:  Jimmy.  Jimmy is one of those students where you have a "Love-Hate" relationship.  Yesterday was the "hate" relationship.  When it was work time, he refused to do work.  He would not sit down and do his work.  He decided to stand on chair and table and escape from me.  When he couldn't, he decided to used his verbal and physical assault.  So this is what went on for 30 mins. Jimmy decided to punch me and kick me.  I back off and he comes closer.  Then he screamed "fuck you", "fuck you, bitch".  This is when I become neutral and promp him back to his seat and work.  Then he screamed, "It's time to kill.  I'm going to kill the teacher.  I'm gonna fucking kill you."  while trying to stab me with his pencil.  I yanked the pencil out of this hand and physically prompted him back to his desk.  I said "sit down" and he said, "Shut up.  Who cares you little cunt."  By then I was even more furious and was get very tired mentally and physically.  Then he began hitting and kicking and that's when my Behaviorist stepped in and took Jimmy out of my room to the counseling room.  I went out of my class and refilled my water bottle because my throat was killing me and I was losing my voice.  As I was walking down the hall, tears began to swell up in my eyes.  I don't understand what sets him off and why he was acting this way.  I felt so discouraged and felt as if I'm not good enough to manage my students...

    10:00-10:30.  Trial Time

    10:30-11:00.  Snack Time.  Don't know what it was dragged for 30 mins....

    11:00-11:30.  Reading with Jimmy.  Jimmy decided that he didn't want to do reading.  So he decided to punch and kick me.  I got very fed up so I told him that I will put all of this toys away. (Frog, Toad, Nintendo DS, Horse, Barney, and Magnet Doodle)  Finally I got his attention because he looked up and said "No.  Stop it!"  I said, "you stop it and work.  One more time and I'll take them away.  (I'm not suppose to do that..but that's the only i can get him to work)  So we tried reading again, but he still didn't want to read, so I got up from my chair and took a plastic bag and start putting his toys in the bag.  He shouted "NO! NO!  Stop it!".  When I finished I asked again, "Are we going to work the best way?"  He said "yes".  Then the next 25 mins was actually reading time.  He did his reading AND Science!!!

    11:30-12:00  Arts and Craft.  Everyone was actually sitting down and doing their work.

    Basically the afternoon was better.  Everyone was behaving....

    Today was actually a GOOD DAY!  All students were behaving well.  During Circle Time today, my kids went around the circle and greeted one another with minimal prompt!  I was so excited and proud of them.  If only I had a video camera and record such moment.  Then whenever I'm having a poopy and discouraged day, that's when I would play the video and remind me Why I got into this profession.....

     

Saturday, 15 March 2008

  • Engagement and 4 year anniversary

    YES!! After 3 years and 11 months...we're engaged =).  It's been a fun 4 years and I thank God everyday how much He has blessed me.  Words can not express how I feel and how awesome God has been to me and to us.  How He brought us together is all Him. 

    I can't wait until April 2009 =)

    Happy 4 Years Anniversary =)

Saturday, 23 February 2008

Saturday, 16 February 2008

  • 2nd Month Reflection

    It has been 2 months since I've been teaching.  It has been fun and stressful at the same time.  I love this job because this job makes every profession.  It's so rewarding when you see your students learning and actually seeing progress!  It's as if i'm seeing my own child through these learning process.  I'm sure all you parents out there know what I mean.  It's a joyous feeling.  It's like all your effort is not in vain.

    Many things had happened these past 2 months.  I learn to not only deal with Children with Autism, but also Parents.  In the previous entry, I told you that two the the parents were constantly on my case.  Well, I can now proudly tell you that I've won one of them over! MUAH HAHAHA  It's alot of work...but it was all worth it =)

    Another thing is that I now have an assistant who's trying to TAKE OVER MY CLASSROOM!!  AHHH!  you know how we are called to be a the light and salt of this world.  And sometimes when people see me, I always wonder if they see Christ in me.  One of my assistants is a Christian.  I found out by accident because she was looking at  a magazine from Family Bookstore.  So this assistant has been trying to take over my classroom and she's doing it in a very unfriendly way.  If makes me realized that if I'm not a Christian and she told me that she is, i would expect her to live her life in a way that is different than the typical people.   however, the way she acts in the classroom and to the kids are quite the contrary. I'm not judging her and stuff.  But it makes me wonder what my other co-workers think of me..

    Anyways...That's my 2 months job review...I have to see what the 3rd month brings =)

Tuesday, 08 January 2008

  • First month

    Teaching is HARD!!!  Especially when you take over a classroom in the middle of the year and with two of your students' parents constantly behind your [donkey] because they had a sour experience with the teacher before you.

    So...Let me tell you the joy working with these 2 parents.  One of the parents came in and observe yesterday.  You know when there's nothing to bitch complain about....people usually pick on pther stuff to complain about.  So this particular parent can in an observe my classroom.  She was here from 9-1.  That's 4 forking hours.  Then she went to the principal's office to bitch complain about this and that.  She bi complained about how everyone is writing the Lunch for today is hamburger because her precious child doesn't get lunch from school because he on the ficking gluten-free diet....Then she complained that her child had only 15 mins for trials because there's library, snack, speech and OT in the morning...If i were to pull her kid from services, she's going to complain about that. 

    Today...one of my kid got a little too excited during free time in the afternoon that he wet himself.  I called the mom and she's the same mom that bitch about the early dismissal.  SOOOOOOoooo....basically it's my fault that her child wet himself.  Because I didn't tell him to go to the bathroom before we go out?!?!  WTH?!?! Since when am I suppose to make my kids go to the bathroom?!?!  He is fine going to the bathroom by himelf and when he needed to.  So now I have to create a CLASS Bathroom Trips to the bathroom all because he fricking wet himself.

    Arrgggggggg...I just wish these parents can be somewhat understand rather than DEMANDING.  Seriously....some parents NEED to HOMESCHOOL their kids....

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